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fl,a,kaf.a uq,skau lkHdNdjh is£kafka fmd,sisfha f,dla‌fld

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fï l;dj wmg lshkafka l=uqÿh' jeäúhg m;aùug;a fmr isg i,a,d,hkaf.a fi,a,ï nvqjla‌ jQ weh jir ;sylg;a jeä ld,hla‌ .‚ld jD;a;sfha kshEf<kakshls' tfy;a oeka wehg ta Ôú;h ysßls;h' lreula‌ldr ria‌idfõ h:d¾:h wjfndaO jk úg wehf.a Ôú;h ms<shï lr fkdyels ;rug lvf;d¨‍ fj,dh'

oeka wehg w¨‍;a Ôú;hla‌ .ek is;Su o isyskhls' tfyhska weh iudc fiaúldjla‌ f,i ùÓhg jefgk wir‚hkag irKla‌ fjkak iudc ioaldrhla‌ mgkaf.kh' l=uqÿ lshk l;dj fufiah'

fld<U iïndyk uOHia‌:dkhlg fyda f,dþ tllg w¨‍;ska ;re‚hla‌ f.k wd úg m<uqj fmd,sisfha by<u ks,OdÍka fofokl=g ,ndÈh hq;=h' fndfyda úg ta kj fhdjqka ;re‚hkaf.a lkHdNdjh is£ hkafka o Tjqka w;sks'

fuhska tl f,dla‌flla‌ wo fld<U isák by<u fmd,sia‌ f,dla‌flls' wfkld úY%du f.dia‌h' ta uy;ajrekaf.a ld,lKa‌‚ wdYdjka bgq jqjo ;re‚hg .e,ùula‌ ke;' Bg my< ks,OdÍka o ika;¾mkh lrk ;re‚h kej; f,dþ tlg fyda iïndyk uOHia‌:dkhg tkafka mr~e,a fj,dh'

tfia úkdY jk ;re‚hkag jeä jhila‌ ke;' jhi wjqreÿ myf<dj" oyy;=fka miq jkakshkah' Tjqka fï krdj<g jefgkafka ;u mjqf,a w.ysÕlï ksidh' fma%u iïnkaO;dj, wjidk m%;sM,hla‌ f,ih' mjqf,a {d;s ;sßikqkaf.ka jk ysßyer ksidh' fudk hï fya;=jla‌ u; wirK jk ;re‚hj" wehf.a ujqmshkaj uq,d lr krldÈhg weo oukafka .ïj, ;e/õldr msïms jefâ lrk ld,lKa‌‚kah'

zudfï uu w÷rk uka;%S flfkla‌ bkakjd' kx.sg fld<U fldïme‚hl fyd| fcdí tlla‌ fiÜ‌ lrkako''' kekafoa fudlo lshkafka kx.sj wms rg hjuqo'''z ;erõldr msïmshka ÿj veye.kak udud kekaod uq,d lrkafka ta wdldrhgh' w.ysÕlïj,ska ñßflk È<s÷ foujqmshka msïms ;erõldrhkaf.a jyis nia‌j,g /jfgkakdy' Tjqka muKla‌ fkdj ¥jreo uq,d fj;s'

tfia rjgdf.k fld<Ug f.k tk ;re‚hj iïndyk uOHia‌:dkhlg fyda f,dþ tllg uqo,g úl=Kkafkah' y÷kajdfok tla‌ ;re‚hla‌ fjkqfjka ;e/õlreg ,efnk uqo, remsh,a mkia‌oyfia isg by<g Èfjkafkah' ;re‚hf.a rEm iïm;a;sh" jhia‌ iSudj u; ;e/õlreg f.jk uqo, by< hkafkah' fndfyda úg ,sx.sl Y%ñl jD;a;shg jefgk ,÷kaf.a wdrïNh iïndyk uOHia‌:dkhhs'

fld<U iïndyk uOHia‌:dk hkq msg; wdhq¾fõoh' we;=<; uia‌ lvh' w;=re wka;%djla‌ fkdue;sj ta iïndyk uOHia‌:dk mj;ajdf.k heug wksjd¾fhkau fmd,sisfha by< ks,OdÍkag i,a,s ñáj,ska iy l=¿÷,a ,÷ka oka Èh hq;=h' fod<msfoaks fkdfok iïndyk uOHia‌:dkj,g fmd,sisfhka .e,ùula‌ ke;'

zuu weia‌ foflka oel,d" lkg weysÉp foj,a uy;a;fhd fï l;d lrkafka' fmd,sisfha f,dl= f,dla‌lkag fld<U fiaru uidþldrfhd isxy, wjqreoaog" k;a;,g f,dl= yeïm¾ hjkjd' tfla uq¿ wjqreoaogu yßhkak nvq ;sfhkjd' uÈ mdvqjg i,a,s ñáhl=;a odkjd' f,dþj,skq;a ta yeïm¾ tl ta úÈygu hjkjd' yß Èfkag yeïm¾ tl f.org .sfha ke;s kï näfhl=;a tj,d n,kjd' kshu úÈyg ks,OdÍkag ie,l=jyu fudk fmd,sisfhka jgl<;a tl flda,a tflka jefâ fYama lrkjd' ta jf.a ;uhs ;%Sù,aldrhkag;a fyd|g i,lkjd' lia‌gu¾ flfkla‌ f.kdju remsh,a mkaiShla‌" yhiShla‌ fokjd' wjqreoaog" k;a;,g ;E.s' lrorhla‌ fjÉp fj,djg i,a,s'''z ta l=uqÿf.a y~h'

fld<U iïndyk uOHia‌:dkj,g jeä mqru <uhs f.akafk fldfykao@ .,df.k hk l;dj w;rg wms yria‌ m%Yakhla‌ fhduq lf<uq'

zwE; m<d;aj,ska''' myq.sh ldf,a jeämqru <uhs f.kdfõ hdmkh" kef.kysr m<d;aj,ska' uu oekqj;aj weô,smsáfhkq;a f.dvla‌u <uhskaj f.k;a ;sfhkjd' uu okak tl <ufhla‌ bkakjd' thdf.a .u weô,smsáfha' ta <uhd wjqreÿ oyy;f¾§ msßñ <ufhla‌ tla‌l hd¿ fj,d' foujqmsfhda ta iïnkaOhg leu;s fj,d kE'

fldfyduyß ,õ tl leä,d' isla‌ tfla bkak w;f¾ .fï ;j fld,af,la‌ isx.mamQre hjkak lsh,d fl,a,j fiÜ‌ lrf.k' fldfyduyß f.org;a fydfrka fl,a, mdia‌fmdaÜ‌ yokak lsh,d fld,a,;a tla‌l fld<U wdjd' fld,a,d fl,a,j f.k;a uu jev lrmq .,alsia‌fia uidþ fikag¾ tlg Ndr ÿkakd' t;fldg fl,a,g jhi wjqreÿ oyihhs' fl,a, uidþ .ek ;shd fld<U .ekj;a fuf,da yirla‌ okafka kE' fl,a, .E‚fhla‌ jqfKa ta uidþ fikag¾ tfla fndia‌f. w;ska' tod fl,a, ojfiu we~qjd' uu;a we~qjd' tod ;uhs ug ta Ôú;h ;s;a; jqfKa' fl,a, yqrenqyqáhs' ,ia‌ikhs' fyd| b,a¨‍ula‌ wdjd' m<d;a iNd uka;%Sjrfhla‌ udihla‌ ú;r f.ksys,a,d ;shdf.k ysáhd' i,a,s ,efnkfldg fl,a, wmdhg yqre jqKd' ta;a i;=áka ysáfha kE' mia‌fia wms fï iudc ioaldrh mgka .;a;g mia‌fia uq,skau uu ta fl,a,j t;ekska .,j,d wrf.k fyd| krl lsh,d ÿkakd' oeka wdh;khl jev lrkjd'''z

fï uE;l ojil ;j mqxÑ fl,af,la‌ yïn jqKd' fldf<dkakdfõ fvdla‌g¾ flfkla‌f.a ÿjla‌' ojila‌ fl,a, ;d;a;d tla‌l nyskania‌ fj,d uyd ? f.oßka mek,d ysi yerefKa wf;a .sys,a,d' fld,a¨‍msáfha§ ;%Sù,aldrhl=g udÜ‌gq fj,d fydagf,alg wrf.k .syska ;shdf.k b|,d' fldfyduyß ;d;a;d fld<U mSr,d fl,a,j fydhdf.k' ta;a f.org tla‌lrf.k .sys,a,d kE' uyr.u me;af;a mqkre;a:dmk uOHia‌:dkhlg fhduq lr,d' t;fldg fl,a,g jhi wjqreÿ myf<djhs' mqkre;a:dmk uOHia‌:dkfha wjqreÿ ;=kla‌ b|,d' t;ek§ ;uhs fl,a, kkak;a;dr fj,d ;sfhkafka' .xcd î,d" l=vq Wr,d' lrkak ;sfhk yeu crd jefâu lr,d' fldfyduyß fl,a, t;ekska mek,d wdfhu;a fld<Ug wdjd' f,dþ tll i,a,sj,g úlsfKkfldg wms l;d lr,d f.dv odkak ne¨‍jd' fl,a, leu;s jqfKa kE' ;Èkau l=vqj,g weíneys fj,d bkafka'''z

z;j wms okak ldka;djla‌ bkakjd' thdf.a .u wkqrdOmqf¾' ku ldxpkd' thdj wkd: lr,d ;sfhkafka thdf.au iShd' wjqreÿ fod<fya b|,d iShd thdg jßka jr lror lr,d' thdf.a wïu;a ,sx.sl Y%ñl ldka;djla‌' ta ksid ÿjg fjk widOdrKh lshkak fmd,sishg hkak thd nh jqKd' mia‌fia fl,a,g bjif.k bkak neßu ;ek f.oßka mek,d fld<Ug wdjd'

fldfyduyß ùÓfha .E‚fhl=g fiÜ‌ fj,d fl,a,j f,dþ tllg fiÜ‌ l<d' ta f,dþ tlg fmd,sisfhka mek,d fl,a,j w,a,f.k .syska mqkre;a:dmkhg o,d ;snqKd' fl,a, t;ekskq;a mekakd' mia‌fia l=vq .y,d fmd,sishg udÜ‌gq fj,d ysf¾ b|,d ksoyia‌fj,d weú;a kej; mrK fcdí tlu lrkjd' oeka kï fl,a,g wjqreÿ úis yhhs' wms fl,a,j fyd| ud¾.hg .kak f,dl= W;aidyhla‌ lrkjd' ug ysf;kafka fl,a, f.dv od.kak neß fjk tlla‌ kE' i,a,sj,g wdYd jqKdg mia‌fia fl,a,kaj .,j .kak fndfydau wudrehs' lkak fndkak ke;=j ysgmq <uhskaf.a w;g fudKr fld< yïn fjkfldg Tfgda fcdí tlg fiÜ‌ fjkjd' iuyr <uhs f.j,a fodrj¨‍;a wu;l lr,d iïndyk uOHia‌:dkh" f,dþ tl f.or lr .kakjd' ;j iuyr wh udfilg j;djla‌ f.or .syska wïud ;d;a;dj n,,d tkjd'''

ziïndyk uOHia‌:dkj, mä fldfyduo'''@ l;djg úrduhla‌ ke;'

lrk jev .dKg' tl .kqfokqlrejl= tla‌l ysáhu remsh,a mkaiShla‌ f.jkjd' lia‌gu¾ fok ikaf;daiu;a tla‌l tla‌oyia‌ mkaiShla‌" Bg jeä fjkak;a mq¿jka' iuyr wh ojilg yh" y;aody fydhkjd' ;j iuyr whg remsh,a mkaiSh;a ke;s ojia‌ ;sfhkjd' f,dþj,;a tl jevlg mkaiShla‌ f.jkjd' ta jqKdg lia‌gu¾f.ka remsh,a ;=kaodyla‌" ;=kaoyia‌ mkaiShla‌ wh lrkjd'

.kqfokq jefgkafk rEfmg' msßisÿlug' ,sx.sl Y%uh úl=Kk yeu ;eklgu mqÿudldr ìia‌kia‌ tlla‌ ;sfhkafka' iuyr ojia‌j,g lr .kak neß ;rug ìia‌kia‌' yenehs tk fiaru f,âvq' tfyï msákau msia‌iq kgkafka' fmd,sisfha mS'iS flfkla‌ úisÜ‌ tlla‌ odmq ojig kï wfma fl,a,kag remsh,la‌j;a ,efnkafka kE' <Õ ;sfhk msÉÑh;a w; .df.k hkjd' tfyu l<;a uidþ" f,dþ whs;sldrfhda jpkhla‌j;a lshkafka kE' fudlo fjk fmd,sishlska jg,kak yeÿfjd;a T;a;=j tkjd'''z

fm<.efik l;djg wkqj ,sx.sl Y%uh úlsŒu hyñka uqo,a tk /lshdjls' tfukau tu jD;a;shg ,efnk wdodhu .ek l=uqÿg fyd| woaoelSï ;sfnkakSh' tfy;a wehg ta Ôú;h wmamsßhd jQfha ukaoehs wmg .eg¨‍jls'

zi,a,s fldÉpr ,enqK;a jevla‌ kE' iudcfha wms wj,x.= ldis' ?g wms;a tla‌l tlg bkak ñksia‌iq Wfoag wmsj oela‌lu ÿjkjd' .‚ldj iudch mqÿu úÈyg fldka lrkjd' fldÉpr yïn lr;a ta .ek ys;,d is;ska y~kjd' uidþ fikag¾j, úlsKqkq uu ú;rla‌ fkfuhs" iqmsß fydag,aj, fvd,¾j,g úlsfKk .Eks;a wdmiq yeß,d n,kfldg is;ska y~kjd' iqmsß Okj;=kag" foaYmd,k{hkag úlsfKk ks<sfhd;a wka;sug lshkafk Th álu ;uhs' tal fï ria‌idfõ yeá'

lsisu flfkla‌ wmsj hyu.g fhduq lrkak l;d lrkafk;a kE' wfmka .kak ;sfhk foa Wmßufhka wrf.k fYama tfla udre fjkjd' wmsg jvd mr jev lrk ldka;dfjda fï iudcfha ;j ´k ;rï bkakjd' ta wh fndfydau Wcdrejg iudch ;=< jecfUkjd' fï foaj,a f;areï hkfldg mrla‌l= jeähs' /ia‌ lr.;af;a mõ ú;rhs' ta mõ iud lrjkak ;uhs fï wdmhg jefgk mqxÑ fl,a,kaj f.dv odkak ys;=fõ' fmd,sisfh;a yeu ks,Odßfhla‌u msïmshkag fy,ama lrkafka kE'

,sx.sl Y%ñl ldka;djkag fyd| krl lshd §,d fyd| ud¾.hg fhduq lrkak W;aidy lrk ks,OdÍka f.dvla‌ bkakjd' wmsg tfyu ks,OdÍka uqK.eys,d ;sfhkjd' ta;a uy;a;fhda fï ,sx.sl cdjdru iïnkaOfhka kS;sh yßhg l%sshd;aul fjkafka kE' urodfka tl f,dþ tll ,sx.sl Y%ñl ldka;djla‌ úÈyg wjqreÿ oy;=kl <ufhla‌ bkakjd' ;j mqxÑ <uhs y;r fofkla‌ bkakjd' ta <uhskaj ;shdf.k bkafka f,dþ whs;sldrhdf.a fldgfyafk f.or' ljqo tajd jg,kafka' <ud yd ldka;d ld¾hdxYh fïjd .ek fydhd n,kak ´kd' ldka;djkaf.a whs;sjdislï .ek l;d lrk Wka ta orefjd .ek;a l;d lrkak ´kd' ta <uhs yßhg ysf¾ .shd jf.a' t<shgj;a nyskak fokafka kE' mõ''' hdmkh me;af;a wysxil fou< <uhs fokafkl=;a bkakjd' isxy, jpkhla‌j;a nE'''z ta l=uqÿg oeka isf;k yeáh' fm<.efik l;djg wkqj fï wmg yefÛk yeáh'

rfÜ kS;shg hg;aj m%ñ;shg l%shd;aul jk iïndyk uOHia‌:dk wf;a weÕs,s .dKg;a jvd wvqh' wks;a ish,a,lu flfrkafka udxi fjf<|duh' tfukau fld<U wjg .‚ld uvï f,i l%shd;aul f,dþ myf<djlg wdikakh' tjeks uvïj,g .Ekq úl=Kk msïmsfhda tugh'

k.rfha .fï lshd fjkila‌ ke;' isxy," fou<" uqia‌,sï fNao ke;' msïms jef⧠we;af;a mqÿudldr tluq;=luls' hdmfka mdov cdjdrïldrhka rjgdf.k tk ;re‚hj fld<U fjkafoaisfha odkafka uqia‌,sï tflls' ke;s kï isxy, tflls' fï ld,lKa‌‚ ye;a; rfÜ hym; fjkqfjka tl udihla‌ tluq;=fjka jev lrkafka kï fï rg óg jvd fndfyda fia isßu;a tlla‌ jk nj meyeÈ,sh'

tfy;a isÿ fjñka ;sfnkafka ta z,sx.sl uia‌ lvj,z /ljrKhg ck;djf.a wdrla‍Idjg isák fmd,sisfha by< ks,OdÍkq;a uqo,g iy l=mdälug msïms jev lsÍuh' hymd,khla‌ .ek isysk ujkafka fujeks msïms ks,OdÍka isák rgl nj yefÛk úg wmg ÿl isf;kafkah' fujeks ks,OdÍka ;ju;a rfÜ wdrla‍Idj iïnkaOfhka ;Skaÿ ;SrK .ekSfï mqgqj, isák nj fmfkk úg is;g uy nhla‌ oefkkafkah'

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